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About 
Coach Pazit Barlev

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I’m a proud wife and mom to three amazing souls who light up my world!

Hi There,

Let me take you a little deeper into where my coaching approach really comes from.
 

If you looked at a picture of my family, you might think I had it easy getting here. But the truth is, it’s been a rocky ride.
 

I like to keep it real, so here it is:

I’m a big believer that a good relationship is a gift we give ourselves.
Yes, others benefit from it - but at its core, it’s something we create for us.

As I mentioned earlier, my approach is different.
It’s not just something I studied - it’s something I live.
It’s shaped by my own experiences and the journey that led me to how I see relationships today.

It’s about us and our emotional needs - what I call “Emotional Payoff.


Here’s what I’ve learned:
Everything we do in life is driven by an emotional need to receive from others.
Our deepest motivation comes from what I call the emotional payoff - the inner emotional reward we feel from every choice we make.

We are emotional beings, and every experience is measured by how it makes us feel.

We’re constantly asking ourselves, “What do I get out of this?”
Every situation, every choice, is measured on an emotional level - even when it happens subconsciously.

Our choices need to serve us emotionally. Otherwise, why would we make them?

The challenge is that most people aren’t aware of the connection between heart and mind.
They end up making choices that don’t meet their emotional needs, leaving them empty, stuck, or disconnected.

On top of that, we live in constant survival mode - mentally, emotionally, and of course, practically.

I like to be effective and see results quickly. I believe change doesn’t have to take years. Once we truly understand and learn something, we can’t unlearn it, right?
 

Over time, I’ve developed a method to shorten the gap between who we think we are and who we really are. My coaching helps people learn how to communicate authentically, feel fulfilled, and live happier.
 

“The quality of your communication is the quality of your life.” - Tony Robbins
 

My coaching reconnects people to their authentic self and teaches them to use emotions as a compass to make choices that actually serve them.

I’ve been coaching couples for over 15 years.

And it’s fulfilling every single time to see couples walk in believing their partner is the problem - and leave realizing their partner is actually the solution to their happiness.

 

What do couples report after taking my program?

  • They feel free and awakened.

  • They gain a deeper understanding of themselves.

  • They discover a new ability to communicate with clarity and connect with depth.

  • And finally - they feel loved and connected in the way they truly need.
     

Ready to experience this shift in your own relationship?
My 3-3-4 Couples Coaching Program gives you 10 powerful sessions - 3 personal sessions for you, 3 for your partner, and 4 sessions together - it's designed to get to the root of what’s really going on in your relationship, communication and connection this will transform it and will get your closer again.

 

👉 Book your free consultation today and take the first step toward the closeness you’ve been missing.

MY TRAINING background - First and foremost is my life experience.

People call me “The Effective Coach” because I focus on results.

My approach is shaped by a blend of diverse training and proven methods, including:

 

 

As a certified Body Language Expert and a proud graduate of the Landmark Education Program, I am equipped to see beyond your surface story and help you free yourself. I believe in your strength to evolve and lead your life in your way.

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