Insights on self respect & communication

It feels like you’re arguing about the same issue. You’re not. Most couples believe their arguments are about money, intimacy, parenting, chores, time together, or communication. But if that were true, solving the issue would solve the argument. Yet somehow, the same tension keeps coming back. Different day. Different topic. Same feeling. That’s because repeated arguments are often driven by something deeper than the issue itself. They come from emotional protection patterns